Amazing!

9/2015 

So....anyone who says that therapy is a waste of time....is lying, because they probably haven't actually attempted it. Therapy is just talking to another person who actually is paid to listen to you. Now, if you get a good therapist they will actually talk back and help you. :) That is key.

You must find the right one...I did. I am a better person for it. And put the hard work in!

5 months ago I felt lost. Now, I can't believe I didn't take the time to get to know who I am sooner.  I'm amazing.

I told my therapist that I have been told I was amazing a couple times before. She told me, I don't want you to hear it from others, I want you to believe it.

I finally do.

I completely changed my life.

I've allowed myself to actually care about me. I am officially free to be me.

And, it is an amazing feeling.

Maintaining.....

This blog was created when I was single hence the "free to be me" but it seems as soon as I get into a relationship I am no longer free to be me, and I end up being okay with that. Which as soon as I am single again I realize that, That is NOT okay! So I must take this new found knowledge into my next relationships and continue to be ME.

Life isn't solely about maintaining a relationship with other people. It is about maintaining a relationship with your self and others. However, I truly think that having a strong relationship with yourself is very important.